If you haven’t tried any sex toys yet, it doesn’t convey it’s not satisfying! That’s what numerous gay partners are exploring about the fun it brings of anal sex toys as an aid during sexual foreplay or sexual intercourse. If both you and your partner are new to these anal sex toys, you may feel bewildered about exactly what those weird-shaped things are and how to use them into play. Anal sex toys are divided into three main types namely, anal beads, anal plugs, and prostate massagers or vibrators.
A little about sex lube first is necessary before doing such activity no matter how you and your partner are excited. A good enough anal sex lube before sex is an essential part of the excitement, especially the human anus does not secrete lubricants naturally and it is very delicate area. Anal sex requires a more adequate lube than usual to avoid getting hurt and stopping the intercourse. A suggestion: use high-quality sex lube intended specifically for anal use only or you can try any of mild numbing lube, especially designed for first time receiver gays. Just keep on adding lubricant during anal play; regardless what type of lube you use. Moreover, the important rule in a “back door” play is to make it leisurely and easy as possible. It should not be painful to either partner. Also, it is essential to communicate with your partner by telling him what makes you comfortable and what makes you uncomfortable.
Another most significant rule in anal play is warming up the anal area where the fun foreplay really starts. You may start with one of Adam and Eve’s erotic massage oils by massaging the entire ass of your partner who will act as recipient. Rub down the buttocks to make the muscles relax in a slow and sexy way. Then, lube up your little finger and gradually insert it in the anus and make sure that you have informed your partner before doing so. Avoid surprises or getting wild during warm up so your partner won’t get hurt. Massage the anus opening slowly using your finger with lubricant until your partner feels completely relaxed, and keep putting in the finger and massaging. CAUTION: Freshly trimmed fingernails can cause more damage than untrimmed nails. If it happens that he continues to complain regardless of your nails being short, you better stop what you are doing to prevent bigger problems later.
These are the easiest and most relaxing anal sex toys to use for beginners. This toy has “graduated-size” beads, often come on stick of soft flexible material like silicone connecting the beads, which gradually change from smaller to larger. One example of these anal sex toys is jelly anal beads having ten blobs that start at only a quarter-inch diameter. In fact, there are beads on actual strings, and even vibrating anal beads that light up and flash in different colors. Furthermore, anal sex beads have a handle. So, there is nothing to worry if you think the toy might be left inside.
Usage: Apply plenty of the lube to the anus and slowly insert the beads. Be sure that your partner won’t feel any pain so he won’t suggest you to stop. When your receiving partner feels good, draw the beads one at a time. Usually, they growl so lustily with this.
These plugs are intended to stay in place during anal sex. They’re in conical design that widens the hole quickly and gently. Usually, they come with a suction-cup base and can vibrate for a satisfying sensation.
Usage: Insert the anal plug slowly and leave it in place during anal sex or masturbation. Be sure to relax as the plug goes in since it comes in big size. A controllable pain may be felt during insertion at the widest part of the plug but eventually, the anus will get accustomed to it. Remember, using the anal plug sex toy requires constant practice to make your sphincter muscles relax.
Prostate Massagers and Vibrators
These anal sex toys come in J or L shape similar to a woman’s G-spot vibrator. They are used to stimulate male’s prostate gland making his orgasm in full strength. Other toys designed just for prostates have also additional features, like testicles and perineum stimulators, used for solo play.
Usage: Gently insert the sex toy, as always. Do not force it on the prostate gland located to the front of the rectum, above the scrotum, and behind the penis. If you’re using a prostate massager for masturbation, you can sit up and rock back and forth on it while using it alone or with a partner. If you’re using it during sex, be gentle as always and let your “back door” muscles get used to it. By this, we don’t think we even have to go into the ecstasy of using a prostate massager while getting an unparalleled stimulation.
Further, anal sex toys have overcome the taboo status that kept partners from discovering a new type of excitement and pleasure during sex nowadays. It is true that these anal sex toys require right time to practice and a sense of adventure in order to achieve the satisfaction they bring. However, many gays today are still hesitant to try these toys. But, just to give a piece of advice, trying these dolls is worth the trouble.
